Whenever I leave the house, it’s inevitable that I’ll run into someone I know. My wife always cringes when I start chatting with them—I’m the social one, and she’s not as much. It wasn’t always like this for me. When I decided to step out of my comfort zone and expand into private appraisal work, I realized that networking and building connections were essential. This brings me to a recent connection I made from running into a familiar face.
My son recently turned 16, so we took him and some friends to TopGolf to celebrate. While we were having a great time, I noticed someone I knew in the bay next to us—a friend’s son who works with his father in commercial insurance. We started chatting, and he mentioned he was there with his networking group for a social happy hour. I asked if there were any attorneys or agents in his group that I could meet. Although neither the estate planner nor the agent in his group was present, he invited me to visit his networking group, and I agreed. Even though I’ve been part of a networking group for the past 10 years (see prior blog: “Is Joining a Networking Group Worth It?“), I thought it was a great opportunity to expand my connections.
A few days later, I attended the meeting and was introduced to an estate planning attorney. Although the real estate agent wasn’t present, I plan to connect with him in the future. The estate attorney, who recently started her practice, didn’t know any appraisers. We scheduled a coffee meeting to learn more about each other’s businesses and explore potential collaboration. While I’m not sure where this will lead, it’s certainly better than waiting at home for my phone to ring.
My advice to fellow appraisers is to get out there and network. Expand your connections and see where it takes you. I turned a fun evening celebrating my son’s birthday into a potential business opportunity that could result in thousands of dollars in new business. It’s not hard—you just need to put yourself out there and be open to new opportunities.
Dan Lindeman
Appraisal Referral Network
ReferAppraisals.com
